Marriage and Russian Women

Marriage for any man is not so good an idea. It makes life complicated legally and financially. Marriage is no guarantee of love. This is men’s primary fatal relationship perception flaw.

Women, all women, get married for reasons which don’t parallel ours insofar as expectations.

For a man, marriage is much more final. He relinquishes his little black book thinking. Stopping his ways of being the hunter, to being the provider of the one.

For the woman, it’s much, much different. As much as any woman can deny that they put their little black book away, and yes, it is true in many cases, nonetheless, they are much more able to shift out of the union in “God’s Eyes” than any man can ever be.

Why?

Because in early life they go through their several or many “emotional” divorces with men, in or out of marriage. They are heavily invested in their first relationships while we’re still sowing our wild oats and trying out anything in a dress. “How could he do this to me?”, says she before marriage in our typical 20’s as men. This changes to, “How could she do this to me?, says he after marriage, generally in their 30’s. 70% of all post 30’s infidelities and divorces happen due to women.

Let’s call them the Dirty Thirties. Usually this women’s stage of sowing wild oats occurs most strongly between 30 and 44. Menopause seems to settle them down again. You could consider it their eggs calling out to survive in any way possible.

You should have heard by now about how women can prefer a more or less macho man depending on her menstrual cycle. The more close to ovulation the more she seeks the purely sexual, cavalier man. The further away from this part of her cycle, the more domestic become her needs from a man. The Mr. Home seeker.

So. What’s to do about this?

Simple. Don’t ever marry. Steadfastly refuse to get married. Even if it’s end game women’s bullshit. Let them go. Because if the ultimatum is marriage or they’ll go, then it’ll happen anyways.

Marriage is a symptom of a woman hoping that this bullshit social event will effectively stop their fear that they are losing their emotional attachment to their man. Additionally, marriage is for a woman as simple sex is for a man in his 20’s. A simple social, personal challenge-indicator.

A man’s inner voice, “I wonder if I can get her into bed.”, in his 20’s becomes her, “I wonder if I can get him to marry me, in her 30’s to early 40’s.”

Do you remember why you wondered that your women were so angry with you after you bedded them and moved on with the slightest of ease? Well, this is the same for women, after they wedded you and moved on with the slightest of ease.

Women’s 20’s teaches them how to recover from emotional devastation. They are already experts by the time they make you think that marriage is your idea.

“Do I inspire men to give up all other women just for my breasts and vagina and female guile and allure?” This is their inner mantra.

Marriage for women is nearly pure ego. It is about having more in themselves than all your other combined options. Quite an ego trip.

There is no biological law that says that you cannot make babies without marriage. There is no emotional tenant that says that a woman determined to love you deeply, madly, passionately, can not do it unless it’s all on paper. Horsemanure.

Don’t get married get loved. And if you can’t get loved, get laid.

Lose the illusion that it’s different if the girl is Russian. If it, it being infidelity or emotionally leaving a marriage, doesn’t happen, it doesn’t mean that they would not, given the opportunity.

It’s biological.

Now armed with this simple truth, save your emotional and financial ass and find another way to get your lovin’ from your woman/women. Marriage will kill your life. Look at all the laws about divorce. Russian or otherwise. All those laws are pro-women, and not pro-men. Meaning, men cannot win and all women know that divorce can slap a man around like a drill sargent on speed. Meaning, women are more than aware that marriage and divorce favours them. Unless you’re one of the lucky 1%.

The Dirty Thirties Stage for women only stops when they get so far past their prime that no sexual man wants them compared to their more beautiful younger versions. At which stage, these same women turn to seeking the one. But only because men stop wanting them. And then the challenge is finding an older version who still has a libido which survives menopause. Unless, of course, you happen to be ED. In which case, marry your sister already.

When your woman promises to give you what all others combined would, it’s a boldfaced lie. And if you believe it, then your life will suffer for it. No woman can give you what all others combined can. Horsebloodymanure.

From a Russian/American matchmaking website:

“If you are barely making it in the US, the truth is that you’re not a better choice than the men they could choose in Russia.”

Apparently, marriage love has a price and that genuine love does not accept the vagaries of life.

In the West today’s pauper can be tomorrow’s golddigger heaven. And vice versa and back again. The assumption is that being lovable has a starting price tag which is irrespective of character. Why go 8,000 kms. to find a foreign feminist? The French have a saying which is, “There is nothing but love.”

Did you read anywhere in this post that I’m anti-love?

“Marriage is serious business for them.” Did you see the words marriage and business in the same sentence? Did you see the words marriage and love in the same sentence?

About 85% of all Russian women return to Russia after a marriage to a foreign man. Russia will have you believe that this is because their foreign men proved to be horrible. Translation of horrible, is the foreign men send them back after they learned that their loving brides were disingenuous; or when she herself decided to take her pension, translated “child”, back to Russia to find, finally, true love of a Russian man who really can understand her, while all, ex, child and newbie live-in, live off your Russian womens’ welfare–Western child support. Very often she will then give birth to his child to hold him in biology as well as your support cheques.

Russian men are not fools. Don’t be a fool.

Boycott marriage. Insist on love.

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